According to the Dictionary DECISION MEANS:
1. The passing of judgment on an issue under consideration.
2. The act of reaching a conclusion or making up one’s mind.
3. A conclusion or judgment reached or pronounced; a verdict.
4. Firmness of character or action; determination.
This past week, its been a “echo”, all over my working place, this word, simply because we got a colleague that is having a hard time deciding on decisions that she will be choosing.
My friend was applying for work in Canada, she eagerly completed all the requirements and documents she needed for her application, at work we are excited checking our emails each and every day just to know if we have mails or any news with our applications( I WAS APPLYING ASWELL,BUT ITS A DIFFERENT SIDE OF STORY)….
It was a mixed emotions everytime she got emails, excited, dreaming and thinking what will be her new life in Canada if ever she will passed and got an employer.
Then suddenly out of nowhere LOVE joins the atmosphere, my friend got a boyfriend( she never had a boyfriend for almost 5 years), at first she said that she was not sure yet with her feelings but as time passes I guess based on what I’m seeing she was totally in-love, I guess same with the guy.
It was last February2013 she was saying that what if she will get an employer, is she going to pursue her Canadian Dream or will stay her in Singapore to be with his Love.
It was weeks of exchanging SMS and chat with her, giving my opinions and advices.
Then the worse came, she got an email that she will be having an interview with an employer, she was again having a hard time to what ever RIGTH decisions she will have.
IS SHE GOING TO PURSUE HER CANADIAN DREAM JOB?
STAY IN SINGAPORE TO BE WITH HER LOVE?
it was this March2013 that I think she finally made a decision, I know it was hard for her to had that decision but ‘m always been supportive to her.
She finally chooses her LOVE:)
I told her that she must have it a try to pursue her Love, I said we never can tell if you and your boyfriend will really meant for each other, but you must enjoy and live your life and enjoy it.
It’s a bit hard to give advices and opinions with this kind of situation.
Just like what i told her, NOW ITS VERY HARD TO GIVE COMMENTS AND ADVICES BECAUSE NOW WE HAVE UR OWN PRIORITIES IN LIFE.
I’m happy for my friend, I know that until now she was thinking if she made a right decision,
BUT IN LIFE THERE WILL BE NO RIGTH or WRONG DECISION, whatever decision you make there WILL ALWAYS BE consequences, the only thing we must do IS TO HOLD ON TO OUR DECISION UNTIL WE CAN FIGTH FOR IT, but we still NEED TO OPEN OURSELVES FOR SOME BETTER OPPURTUNITY IN THE FUTURE.
To my friend YOUR SUCH A STRONG WOMAN, WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST ON YOUR DECISIONS, I WILL ALWAYS BE A FRIEND TO HOLD ON’:)